Things every couple must discuss before getting married

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    • You should always make sure that if the person wants to marry you or not or are they doing it because of some pressure.
    • You should be aware of your partner’s actual debt.It is not seductive, but it is really important. To avoid residual issues always asks this.

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    • You should always be aware of the plans to raise your kids. You should not just ask about whether they want kids or no, but should discuss about how you plan to raise them.
    • We all know that infertility has become the major issues in today’s world so what would they do in the case of infertility
    • If you stuck up in any situation will they be always there for you as this is really important to know till what extent your partner can go for you.
    • This is not necessary that once you are married you should always be together so you should know that how much space is a person willing to give.

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    • This is not necessary that if you are a woman, you need to take care of all the household works and if you are a man then you should take care of your office only. In today’s world, everything is equal, so you should be aware that in future how you will split the chores.
    • You should always be aware of each other’s secret as there should be no regrets later on and no one from both of you can tell who the Fuck Did I Marry?!
    • This is one of the most important things to know from each other that why they want to get married to you, is it their choice or are they marrying you because of their parent’s pressure.

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    • It is important to know what the other person thinks of their future, so you should always need to know where they see themselves after 30 years or a little bit less for a secure future.
    • You should know that what your partner considers cheating. As according to you cheating can be simply emotional interaction, but according to your partner they only consider physical interaction cheating.
    • Where do you want to live? Do they want to stay where they are or they want to move on are the few questions that both the partners discuss before proceeding further.
    • This is very important to know that how do your partner sense about spirituality as it can cause a big variation in relation. If your spirituality is really necessary to you, how could you probably engage with somebody who contradicts with its essential values? There’s also a daily practice of getting up early in the morning to go to the spiritual place, praying to the God, helping out somebody, seeing holy books everywhere and how you raise your children too.

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  • You should always discuss about your in laws with each other. A strong relationship with your in-laws is a good thing. As Indians, we are generally adapted to the objective of joint families, but it is completely fine for the couples to want to go out and live on their own too. The main thing is to discuss about these things before getting married. Also, when staying away from parents, there may arise a time when one of them or both of them may require appropriate responsibility. And you need to be ready for this. Very less partners would say no to a parent touching in, but it’s a nice idea to talk about this in advance.