GETTING MARRIED EXPECTATION VS REALITY
Oops, I meant relationships, how long does this ship sail?
Way too long, right?
Relationships are not easy, they are not constant and neither they are so easy. From the moment of exchanging the rings to the moment when you look at each turning all old with grey hair and wrinkles everything changes with each passing day. The expected and the reality is different many times in relationships so let’s see what was expected and what actually happened.
Undoubtedly every couple getting married has some dreams and fantasies about their first date after marriage. It can be after the marriage or before getting married but first dates always come with romance, candles, wine, and love. This is expected obviously.
But what happens is completely the opposite. The romantic date is converted into a fuzzy afternoon or evening where phones become the wine and food is the only romance left between the couple.
●Waking up in the morning:
Have you heard those phrases of “I want my all mornings to be beside you” while proposing and all that stuff where you are eager to spend the rest of your lives? That breakfast in bed and morning kisses are way too cute, ain’t it?
Well, that was expected. The truth is after getting married the only thing that wakes you up in the morning is the milkman and there is no bed and breakfast with romantic kisses and hugs, in fact, there is yelling and fighting of who will shower first, because both are late for the office,, tadanggg all dreams smashed right?
●How you dance:
The first official dance at your wedding, remember? It took so many practices and efforts to make that every move perfect and most important to make your fiancé learn those. After getting married how do you think of a long day ending with a real romantic dance, soothing music, and the delicious dinner date?
When you expect this, you actually end up with the funniest dance on the earth with the loose trousers and t-shirts adding more fun to it.
●A romantic shower:
Some scented candles with perfect bath salts, these showering plans with your husband/wife is a great fantasy and actually a dream since you decided to get married. Does that actually happen, because no married couple said so.
This is what actually happens in the name of the shower!
Surprises are the best part of any relationships. They definitely have the ability to make anything up. And the most important part who does not like to be surprised? So what do expect your husband to surprise you with wives? A romantic dinner date besides the beach? Coming home to the freshly cooked dinner by him? Or a diamond ring?
Well, this is what you actually are surprised too.